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Tips for Children and Young People

Are you a young person who’s being bullied? Or maybe you’re witnessing others being bullied? Either way there are ways around it. Here’s our anti-bullying tips for you.

  • It doesn’t matter what colour hair you have; how you speak; how you walk; how you talk – it is not your fault if you get bullied. We are all different in some way and that’s what makes us amazing.
  • Whether you are a boy or a girl, old or young, big or small – bullying makes you feel rubbish and it’s okay to be upset about it. The important thing is that you tell someone about it.
  • If you feel you can, talk to a teacher you trust or your parents, brother or sister. If you don’t want to do that you can always call Childline 0800 11 11 or visit www.childline.org.uk.
  • Keep a record of what happened, when it happened, and who was involved. If the bullying is online, keep the evidence – save or copy any photos, videos, texts, emails or posts.
  • It can be tempting if you are being bullied to retaliate – to send a horrible message back to someone, to try and embarrass and hurt the other person, or to fight back. This is not a good idea – you might end up getting into trouble or get yourself even more hurt.
  • Think about other ways you can respond to bullying. For example, practice saying: “I don’t like it when you say that/do that – please stop.” Think about other people who can help you if you are being bullied – this could be other classmates, or a teacher.
  • Only hang out with people who make you feel good about yourself. If someone constantly puts you down they are not a real friend and not worth your time.
  • Be kind to yourself, and do things that make you feel good, relax and make new friends. You might play an instrument; write lyrics; draw cartoons; dance; act or join a sports club. This is your life so make sure it’s the best life possible – don’t let anyone bring you down.
  • Remember to be kind to other people! Just because someone is different to you – that doesn’t mean you are better than them or have a right to make them feel bad. If you mess up, say sorry. You don’t have to be friends with everyone – but you should always show respect, make it clear that you don’t like it when people bully others, and stick up for people who are having a hard time.

 

If you're worried about bullying speak to someone you trust, report it online at tootoot.stmaryschs.org.uk or call Childline on 0800 11 11

source: anti-bullyingalliance.org.uk

Anti-Bullying

Report It

Phone: 01942 884 144

Anti Bullying Line: 01942 766915

by Email:
antibullying@st-maryshigh.wigan.sch.uk

Online:
tootoot.stmaryschs.org.uk


Get Help

There are many organisations who can help you in the fight against bullying.  Here are just a few:

Childline: 0800 1111

NSPCC: 0800 800 5000

Samaritans: 08457 90 90 90

CEOPs: www.ceop.police.uk

CEOP: 0870 000 3344

Anti-Bullying Campaign:
0207 378 1446

Children’s Legal Centre:
01206 873 820

Kidscape: 0207 730 3300

Parentline Plus: 0808 800 2222

DFEwww.dontsufferinsilence.com

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